If you think you are stuck in challenging circumstances right now and there seems to be no way out and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and try to be connected with your breath, be centered in your heart and let go of all thoughts for a moment. Deep breath in and out and pay attention to all the sensations in your body. Try this for 10 to 20 minutes. Then as you observe your mind and hold the intention in your heart that no matter what happened, there is always a way out or around. Hold sincere and humble intentions for miracles to manifest themselves.

No matter how bad your think the problems are, there are always at least one solution whether you are aware or not. No matter how big the mistakes you have made, Divine love and grace forgives you instantly. And you need to drop the ego or the critical mind and be completely honest and humble about your feelings. Then the mind can be open to be aligned with divine ideas.

If you think you are at plateau in some areas of your life, trust there is always room to grow. There is no limit to spirit. Although for divine ideas to be grounded in your system and to manifest into something tangible,  it may take time and effort, they are great opportunities to learn important lessons such as faith, surrender, trust, flexibility and patience. The more challenging the circumstance, the more important for your life purpose and the greater the lessons. Trust that the divine really only gives you what you can handle. So if you are facing seemingly impossible challenges now, focus on what lessons you are supposed to learn here. What qualities you need to develop to overcome the challenges. Once you get clear mentally and emotionally, action come much easier and desired circumstances can be manifested magically.

For example, in order to run a business well, you may have to learn about building healthy boundaries, trusting yourself and the divine, nurturing your dreams and desires, taking inspired actions, be open to others suggestions and always stay true to what is important and what feels right to you, and taking inspired actions consistently.

To manifest a healthy relationship or to be with the man or woman of your dream, you have to learn about self-love and self-appreciation, patience, respecting others’ free will, letting go and realizing that you have always been whole, being responsible for your own feelings and emotions, staying true to yourself without denying yourself just because you love someone and taking loving actions no matter how challenging you think it may be and allowing your true self to be seen and not be afraid to be vulnerable.

Whatever the challenges are, don’t run away from them. Face them squarely and walk through them. Have faith that whatever you need will be given at the right time at the right place and you just need to stay open. So it’s a great experience to build trust and connection with the divine and realize that with the divine/God, anything is possible. 

In life, everything is a reflection of yourself.  If you feel life becomes unbearable and all you could do is to bottle down all of your feelings, push them aside and pretend they are not there. Then life challenges will nudge you to be more self-loving and bring your attention to your shadow side which needs healing and nurturing. At this time, it’ll be best to seek professional help instead of attempting to deal with stress, traumas and breakdowns alone. There is nothing weak about asking for help. It actually shows great strengths such as vulnerability and trust and humility. Besides that, we can learn so much by working with others and see things from different perspectives because really it’s all about perspectives.

Further more, it’s very important that you do whatever is necessary to make sure you have a loving and supportive immediate environment. Human being are social beings and you become the people that you spend most time with. So pay attention to how, where and with whom you spend your time, money and energy. It’s not about cutting people out of your life. It’s about being responsible for  your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and being loving to yourself. Make sure that when you do something, it is because you choose to do it rather than you think you have to do it.

Lastly, don’t be so afraid of life challenges. Divine wouldn’t give you the challenges you are not able to overcome. So rejoice that the divine entrusts you to overcome them. Try to look at external unfavorable circumstances as gifts to help you heal the shadow side of yourself and get clear about what you want in your life. Keep your eyes on the prize and focus on what truly matters. It’s much more rewarding to be an outlier, be on your true path and do what you truly love than going along with the crowd and being hollow inside.

Life is really about learning to connect the inner realm and the outer world and making your heart-based desires your reality. Mistakes and struggles are necessary part of the journey, they teach you so much more about life and yourself. As Jim Rohn said: Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom. All relationships and mistakes can be healed and corrected as long as you keep the faith, be open to the wisdom they bring to you and take inspired actions that lift your conscience.

Love and light,

Jane Huang