Man in the mirror…Make that change!

One of the most beautiful, powerful and soul pounding songs from one of the greatest artists who was misunderstood by so many people while he was alive. But from his masterpiece creation, his love for the world, humanity and justice was so clear and undeniable! His songs continously inspire millions of people from all walks of life to be genuine, strong, and out-spoken. He could have continuously created more masterpiece and his life could have been much better if there had been less negative judgements, pressure and attack made towards him.

There are still a lot of people out there make others’ pain their point of attack, ridicule, manipulation and criticism. We DO NOT need any more people like that! There is already enough pain i the world. What we need is more and more people who are seeking for truth, rightiousness and universal love coming together and being given the opporunities to speak truth and love and do the rights things.

Love is always more powerful than fear, resentment, hatred, and condemnation; And light is always more powerful than darkness.

As humanity, we could achieve so much more if people from all countries, cultures, classes, and religions work together to slove problems such as poverty, inequality, racial intolerance, climate changes, water polution, destruction to rainforests etc.

We CAN make it happen only if we start with OURSELVES. Ask yourself what you can do more not only in the benefit of yourself but also those who will be affected?

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

It Gets Better Series

LOVE HEALS AND FLURISH EVERYTHING. There are a lot of negative things and events happening in the world right now, but I am glad that It Gets Better Project has taken off so well and has had amazingly positive impact on not only people who are in the coming out processes, but also those who are in career transitions having to come out of comfort zones, taking actions to follow true callings to bring more love to the world no matter what others say, standing up against unloving cultural traditions even in front of dangerous and life-threatening punishment and questioning political authorities and revealing what is really going in the world on a large scale. Respect, applause and reverence go to the brave, the honest, the strong and those who sacrifice for others.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

The Poem of Life, Love & Growth

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Beneath the density of your grief, lie the sparks of your passion.

Light up your passion and let the inner light guide you to create miracles and colour the world.

Beneath the depth of your searching, stands the evergreen tree of wisdom,

Its roots are so deep that it has been wating for your visit since the beginning of your existence

In the midst of cloud of your loneliness, sits a beautiful and abundant queen

whose joy comes from sharing not needing for others

Beneath all the effort dedicated to achieving inner enlightenment and refusing to be conditioned by society,

lies a half-sleeping lion whose awakening time is about to come.

The awakening threathens the weak while uplift the strong.

Beneath your sorrow and heartbreaks, lies a beautiful rose of love and compassion

that grows and omours everytime you shower others with forgiveness, love, affection and compassion,

while withers in anger, hatred, resentment, and envy.

Beneath your fears, lie the seeds of inexhaustable courage and undefeatable confidence which will grow into you

if you protect them with faith and definite purposes.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

How To Deal With Abusive Relationships

woman huggingThe first step to deal with abusive relationships is admitting you are actually in one. Most people tend to deny they are in one because all relationships take time and effort to create and maintain and we don’t want to believe that the time and evergy that we have spent are going to waste or against us.

Then something might happen to make you alert that the person you are in relatioship (does not have to be romantic relationships, it can be parents, relatives, co-workers, social encounters etc) with actually tend to be a taker, a manipulator, or a user. When situations like this happens, some people critisize the other person for being inconsiderate and be very angry at them while others tend to tell themselves that everything will be fine and wishfully think the other person will change for them. Very few people really look at the the cause of the issue and how the relationship was formed in the first place. However, this is an important step to deal with all relationship problems. We have to really understand what situation we are in and what the next step to take that will bring the best solutions for everyone involved.

Most emotional and physical abusive relationships form when both parties have insecurities, looking for another person to help deal with our problems (or to complete us). Then, we have to ask ourselves, what do we want to experience from this particular relationship? Are we trying to get something from it in order to ease our fears, anxieties or insecurities. Relationships based on co-dependnece will always meet challenges down the road and it will get harder and harder as time goes by because both parties refuse to learn and baggage carried by each people grows day by day.

To deal with it in a healthy way, we really have to detach ourselves from the situation for as long as we need and feel the emotions that come up. The emotions we feel is what created the event and even the relationship. Common emotions include anger because of feeling not getting what one wants, grief due to feeling sacrificing so much for nothing, fear because not knowing what the future will be etc. It’s very important to know we are responsible for everything we feel. We are not responsible for how others treat us because everyone has free will. But we are in total control of how we feel and what actions we take. If what other people do have effect on us, it is beause we are not strong enough internally and we have expectation on others to please us. The expectations we put on others really come from deep-rooted selfishness because we make ourselves the centre of a relationship and we demand others to please us. So it is not surprising that relationships formed based on selfishness create pain for both sides and will not last long. People who are attached to their expectations tend to stay in abusive relationships longer because they are more susceptible to illusions that the other person will become who they want them to be.

Once we are clear about our feelings and where they come from, we are ready to start taking action that will help us grow and free us eventually.

  1. Do not play the blame game: meaning completely own your own emotions, thoughts, and actions. If someone is not loving to you (eg: criticism, ridicule, condemn, manipulate, blame etc) tell them how you feel, and give them a choice to change. If they do not change, leave. You do not have to put up with that.
  2. See what you can change in order to improve the situation: all abuseive relationships are created by more than one person. See what you have done has created such an relationship. Change your attitude, actions and intentions. Communicate with the other person. If he/she is willing to change in the positive direction, you can choose to grow together. If the other person is closed off and not willing to change, leave the situation because the other person is being selfish and controlling and you do not have to be the victim.
  3. Persistence: Roman Empire was not built in one day. Usually abusive realtionships are quite difficult lessons to learn and takes time and effort to change or leave them. You have to be persistent in what you do and how you feel. You need to make new ways of thinking, perceiving, and responding your new habits, replacing the old ones, so that you life keeps going in the desired direction. To achieve that, it takes time, effort and constant practice. Remember: nothing worthwile comes easy.
  4. Celebrate accomplishments: We tend to overlook our needs and under-appreciate ourselves. This is actually one of the reasons why we even get into abusive relationships because we do not love ourselves enough. We tell ourselves it’s okay that life is stressful and frustrating. But in truth, life doesn’t have to be that way. We choose to experience the events we want to experience. No matter how difficult it seems at a particular moment, we always have choices and the right choices always give you hope, peace and freedom. What you choose may take you out of your comfort zone, but it’s good for you and you need to trust your ability to deal with challenges and trust that the universal laws are meant to help your grow and prosper, but you need to take inspired actions and face some challenges first. We also need to understand that challenges/difficulties in life are not meant to be punishment. They are only consequences of what you have done or not done in the past. So the faster you deal with a problem, the less severe consequence it will be.
  5. Start to give more: The purpose of life is to prosper, to grow, be abundant, be confident, be happy, be loving, be generous, be helpful, be compassionate and make your contribution to help others and make the world a better place. The universe will generously return its favour at the right time . The more you give, the more abundant you will be. The more you love, the stronger you will be. The more you smile, the happier you will be. The more you try, the more confident you will be. The more you help, the more successful you will be. The secret to live an abundant, joyful and fulfilling life is to give generously and receive graciously.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Why Are We “Waiting On The World To Change”?

Hands Up for this amazing and truthful song! It really portrays how a lot of people feel about what are happening in the world right now that creates so much frustration, destruction, mistrust and agony.

The power to change what the future world looks like is within every person right now, right where we are. It’s not about what one person can do on day X, it’s about human beings collectively learning to face the truth and coming up with solutions to the problems that have been created by us.

If we give a bit more, share a bit more, consume and waste a lot less, we’ll read a lot less news about poverty and wealth inbalance. In contrarory, all people will have equal rights and opportunities to have access to food, shelters, educational insitutes, and health systems.

If we care a bit more, respect a bit more, judge and discriminate a lot less, we’ll hear a lot fewer stories about people, religions and cultures fighting, despising one another. We will be humble enough to learn from and exchange knowledge with those who are from different cultural or religious background. As a result, we will progress so much faster as human race because of the difference instead of dispite the difference.

Everyone is an important and unique piece to solve the great puzzle/challenge that we are facing now. Even though there is still a lot to overcome economically, politically, religiously, scientifically and spiritually, we should still count and recognize any contribution and progress made in the positive direction and have faith that love, compassion, kindness positivity, and prosperity will always win in the end.

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Question Your Ability to Achieve Your Goals? – Watch This!

Human beings have amazing and inexhaustible abilities and potential to achieve our goals and create unbelieve realities. Whether you can achieve your potential, all depends on which image of yourself and the voice in you that you choose to connect to and live by. If you see yourself as a people pleaser, you will always do what other people expect of you and never really find out what you truly want. If you see yourself as a victim of life, you will always find power, strength and decisiveness too far to reach. If you see yourself as a conventional person, you will always follow cultural norms and never question if they are beneficial for societal progression and if they are for your highest good.

On the other hand, if you see yourself as a person who speaks and acts in truth and justice, you will not be lured into pleasing anyone because you see personal freedom and self-repect as most important and when you understand to respect yourself, you will give others the respect that they deserve as well.

If you see yourself as a powerful creator rather than a victim, you will go within and summon your inner wisdom, power and strength to make the best possible decisions out of any situation rather than giving up half way or blaming others for hardship because you understand that you participate in creating everything in your life and how you feel about anything in your life is totally within your control.

If you see yourself as a powerful, free human being who is meant to live by their purpose and bring knowledge, wisdom, freedom and inspiration to the world and is not meant to blindly follow any convention created by society, you will live your life with purpose, determination, gratitude, joy, creativity and love that will touch so many people in this world and inspire them to get out of their shell and be free.

A change in perception and intention can change so much in your life.

If you ever question your ability to achieve your goals, think again, because you are powerful, amazing and beautiful.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder Of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Freedom, Love, Tolerance and Acceptance

One of the most beautiful songs about freedom, love, spirituality, tolerance and acceptance. We are all brothers and sisters on the jouney of constant learning and creating our individual and collective reality that we call LIFE. It doesn’t matter what cultural, class, racial or religious background you are from, we are fundamentally the same inside and all have the innate desire to love and be loved.

Most problems in the world now are created by lack of love manifesting in lack of tolerance and acceptance such as different religions, culture, politics, sexuality etc. However, everyone has the gift of free will and is encouraged to make whatever decisions they like without harming others. Everyone’s purpose in life is to prosper through experiencing and developing one’s talents and abilities, resulting in creating value to the world and human-kind.

We are much stronger, more powerful together than apart and against each other. The biggest lesson humanity needs to learn is love – truly giving from the heart without expecting anything back while allowing the universe returns its favour at its divine time.

Hope this post can help those who are struggling in life and know that my prayers are with you.

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Daily Prayer – I Completely Love And Accept Myself

Before you start reading the prayer, remember to breathe into your diaphragm several times and allow Chi in your body to flow. Then as you start to read the prayer, you’ll feel your whole being is willing and eager to absorb the essence of the prayer.

 

In the infinity of life where I am,

all is perfect, whole and complete.

I allow myself to be Divinely protected and guided.

I trust that the Universe loves me unconditionally,

and is waiting for me to receive its love and abundance.

I choose to look within

as the outside reality is an accurate picuture of my inner state.

As I shift my inner state, my outside reality changes as well.

It’s safe for me to look within

and trust that the universe will protect me through the process.

It’s safe and beneficial for me to dive into the suppressed emotions

as the emotions I am afraid and resent the most

are the ones I need to clear the most.

I realize that I am far more than my personality – past, present and future.

I now choose rise above my perceived problems

to recognized the magnificence of my being

and know that I have complete power to change my life

I am competely willing to accept, embrace, love and value myself dearly.

All is well in my world.

 

 

Inspired by Louise L. Hay

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Daily Prayer – Accepting, Understanding and Exploring Life

In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect,

whole and complete, and yet life is ever changing.

I open my heart to accpet and embrace changes,

for they create opportunities,

and leave out what do not work.

Life is never stuck or static or stale,

for each moment is ever new and fresh.

Everything happens in my life, including all the highs and lows

helps me move towards the life I really desire and deserve.

I am one with the very Power that created me, and this Power

has given me the power to create my own circumstances.

I rejoice in the knowledge and excitment that I have the power

to create whatever experience I desire and believe to acquire.

Every moment of life is a new beginning point

to re-start and re-shape the direction and quality of my life.

Everything in my world depends on what I do, think and feel right here, right now.

All is well in my world.

Inspired by Louise L. Hay

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance