How Law of Attraction Really Works

In the context of human experience, the law of attraction works on both conscious and subconscious level. What most human are consciously aware of is only about 3%. the rest is unconscious within which some is inherited, some may come from past life, some were picked up when you were very young or when you were in a highly receptive state so information, thoughts and beliefs went into your subconscious mind directly without being examined or filtered by your conscious mind.

There have been a lot of books, programs talking about changing your thoughts in order to change your life. However, you have have noticed that a lot of the times, it may not be as easy as you would like because thoughts come from your belief systems, most of which are unconscious to you until you start to do some serious inner-work. Thoughts that have heavy emotional charge attached to them are more challenging to change causing behavioral patterns difficult to change as well.

Diving a bit deeper, what makes changing your beliefs challenging is that you very likely picked them up when you were very young from your parents or caretakers. When you were young, you had no choice but absorb and pick up everything around you because your brain is not developed yet to perform complex tasks and weave out or reject negative thoughts, beliefs or projections. Then you go on living your life as if you aught to think, feel or behave in a certain way not knowing that there are actually unlimited ways of thinking, perceiving, behaving and living your life. Years of living your life unconsciously only consolidates your subconscious beliefs until when you see the limitation of living your life in a certain way and start to ask deeper questions such as “How can I improve my life experience?” “Why did I behave in a certain way?” “How can I change my response?” etc.

People who are awakened or are in the awakening process will be drawn to self-healing or self-development in order to understand themselves better, to heal parts of themselves that were not loved or damaged, to be their own best friend and biggest ally. When you start to put in the work in the right direction, the universe will respond and help you along by bringing you experiences and miracles better than you have expected. Everything starts with you. If you want to have better relationship with your spouse/partner, you need to take responsibility and start to examine your life first. Are you doing everything you can? Do you truly want to stay in the relationship? Do you see a future with your spouse/partner? Whether the answer is yes or no, you need to be honest with yourself and make decisions and take actions that are aligned with your integrity, principles and values. When you do it consistently, either your spouse/partner will be inspired to change with you or the universe will clear the way and bring you someone who has similar intention and is a vibrational match for you.

As you keep unpeeling the onion, start to work on yourself on the soul level, start to say “YES” to your soul purpose and start to walk on your soul path consistently, the universe will bring you someone who can resonate with you on your soul level. Some people call it a soulmate relationship, but in essence, it means to be in a relationship with someone who has great synergy and chemistry with you. You understand, love and care about each other deeply, help each other be the best you can and walk on your highest paths individually and collectively. However it doesn’t mean it will always be easy as life will always throw you challenges, but overall it will be a very strong, deep, meaningful, satisfying and often intense relationship.

Love and light,

Jane

The Importance of Speaking Truthfully

The ability to speak truthfully from your heart and mind in all interactions is a necessary skill to have in order to gain loyal, trustworthy friends, build strong bonds with your loved ones and be an influential figure in your career not in an egotistical way but because you have something genuine and progressive to share.

Speak truthfullyWhatever comes from the heart originates in love and whatever originates in love can never fade away or be destroyed. People may forget what you have said to them, but they will never forget how you make them feel. However, it doesn’t mean you always need to tell people what they want to hear without checking in what you want to say really resonates with you. Otherwise you will be a people pleaser and give people not with best intention excuses not to treat you with respect.

Be genuine, be in your power, speak truthfully and respectfully. Your love and respect for yourself and others can potentially awaken the love and respect in others. If whoever you talk to responds well to you, then you know it’s a relationship that is worth developing. If not, then you know they are not the right person to connect to, at least not for now and not on that specific subject matter. Also based on how they respond to you, you can have a glimpse of their character and quality as person. I always remember what Warren Buffett said: “You cannot make a good deal with a bad person.” Have strong boundaries but also be flexible. Everyone has the potential to change and evolve. Everyone has the potentiality to be great and extraordianry. However without making definite decisions and taking actions, the potentiality can never be realized. Pay attention to people’s actions and not just the words as well as how they treat everybody they encounter.

It is also very important to point out that people tend to mirror each other, especially in  close relationships. What you see in others often is a reflection of yourself. This can be tricky when you are not aware of these hidden parts of yourself and can be confusing and even destructive if you project them onto others. For example, if you made a mistake in your work and your manager was upset. It doesn’t necessarily mean he/she is upset with you or there is soSpeak truthfully 2mething wrong with you. But if you feel hurt, then it usually comes from an unhealed wounded that is triggered by the manager. So in this case, it is best to seek help from a professional to heal the wound within yourself first before communicating with the manager about the issue.

On the other hand, the manager has to be aware of their own projections and not misuse or abuse their power and positions. I love the following two quotes from Dale Carnigie’s book “How to win friends & influence people”:

  1. “A great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little men.”
  2. “Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.”

There’s a chapter from the book “The Four Agreement” titled “Be impeccable with your words.

The following is my take on it:

Before you can be impeccable with your words, it’s important to look into your heart and ask yourself what your true intention is. Your words intensify and consolidate your intention while your intention is the driving force behind your words. Before you communicate with someone about an important issue, negotiate a deal or confess your feelings, it’s essential to always be clear about your intentions, your values, what sits well with you and what doesn’t, so that you are prepared, grounded and present. You will know clearly what to do, wcommunicationhere you can compromise and where you cannot.

The best kind of communication is always two-way open communication. Let go of your judgments and what you think you know about a person or a situation. Allow your understanding of them to support your discernment but soften your judgement so that you see him/her and situation for what they really are instead of looking for what you want to see. In this way, you allow both parties to come at a mutual understanding and build a good foundation for trust and growth.

 

Love and Light,

Jane Huang

If you are going through challenging times…

If you think you are stuck in challenging circumstances right now and there seems to be no way out and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and try to be connected with your breath, be centered in your heart and let go of all thoughts for a moment. Deep breath in and out and pay attention to all the sensations in your body. Image result for surrenderTry this for 10 to 20 minutes. Then as you observe your mind and hold the intention in your heart that no matter what happened, there is always a way out or around. Hold sincere and humble intentions for miracles to manifest themselves.

No matter how bad your think the problems are, there are always at least one solution whether you are aware or not. No matter how big the mistakes you have made, Divine love and grace forgives you instantly. And you need to drop the ego or the critical mind and be completely honest and humble about your feelings. Then the mind can be open to be aligned with divine ideas.

If you think you are at plateau in some areas of your life, trust there is always room to grow. There is no limit to spirit. Although for divine ideas to be grounded in your system and to manifest into something tangible,  it may take time and effort, they are great opportunities to learn important lessons such as faith, surrender, trust, flexibility and patience. The more challenging the circumstance, the more important for your life purpose and the greater the lessons. Trust that the divine really only gives you what you can handle. So if you are facing seemingly impossible challenges now, focus on what lessons you are supposed to learn here. What qualities you need to develop to overcome the challenges. Once you get clear mentally and emotionally, action come much easier and desired circumstances can be manifested magically.

For example, in order to run a business well, you may have to learn about building healthy boundaries, trusting yourself and the divine, nurturing your dreams and desires, taking inspired actions, be open to others suggestions and always stay true to what is important and what feels right to you, and taking inspired actions consistently.

To manifest a healthy relationship or to be with the man or woman of your dream, you have to learn about self-love aImage result for learning growingnd self-appreciation, patience, respecting others’ free will, letting go and realizing that you have always been whole, being responsible for your own feelings and emotions, staying true to yourself without denying yourself just because you love someone and taking loving actions no matter how challenging you think it may be and allowing your true self to be seen and not be afraid to be vulnerable.

Whatever the challenges are, don’t run away from them. Face them squarely and walk through them. Have faith that whatever you need will be given at the right time at the right place and you just need to stay open. So it’s a great experience to build trust and connection with the divine and realize that with the divine/God, anything is possible. 

In life, everything is a reflection of yourself.  If you feel life becomes unbearable and all you could do is to bottle down all of your feelings, push them aside and pretend they are not there. Then life challenges will nudge you to be more self-loving and bring your attention to your shadow side which needs healing and nurturing. At this time, it’ll be best to seek professional help instead of attempting to deal with stress, traumas and breakdowns alone. There is nothing weak about asking for help. It actually shows great strengths such as vulnerability and trust and humility. Besides that, we can learn so much by working with others and see things from different perspectives because really it’s all about perspectives.

Further more, it’s very important that you do whatever is necessary to make sure you have a loving and supportive immediate environment.Image result for self love Human being are social beings and you become the people that you spend most time with. So pay attention to how, where and with whom you spend your time, money and energy. It’s not about cutting people out of your life. It’s about being responsible for  your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and being loving to yourself. Make sure that when you do something, it is because you choose to do it rather than you think you have to do it.

Lastly, don’t be so afraid of life challenges. Divine wouldn’t give you the challenges you are not able to overcome. So rejoice that the divine entrusts you to overcome them. Try to look at external unfavorable circumstances as gifts to help you heal the shadow side of yourself and get clear about what you want in your life. Keep your eyes on the prize and focus on what truly matters. It’s much more rewarding to be an outlier, be on your true path and do what you truly love than going along withImage result for inner outer world the crowd and being hollow inside.

Life is really about learning to connect the inner realm and the outer world and making your heart-based desires your reality. Mistakes and struggles are necessary part of the journey, they teach you so much more about life and yourself. As Jim Rohn said: Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom. All relationships and mistakes can be healed and corrected as long as you keep the faith, be open to the wisdom they bring to you and take inspired actions that lift your conscience.

Love and light,

Jane Huang

 

Three Aspects to Permanent Growth in Life

As you consciously choose to grow spiritually and set the intention be embrace the authentic “you”, you may start to notice your day-to-day choices may be based on a lot of fear based emotions. The activities you consciously or unconsciously engage with may have a lot of addictive nature such as checking emails, messages, reading magazines, tabloids news etc. in order to feel some level of excitement or fulfillment. This type of addition can really disconnect with your inner feelings, intuition and soul wisdom. Ask yourself, are you able to embrace solitude? Do you really treasure the time you spend with yourself? Do you allow yourself to feel and accept your true feelings and hold compassion for them or are you afraid of them and feel the need to run away from them, suppress them or distract yourself by busy doing something?Image result for spiritual growth The external life circumstances are really reflection of your inner world. If you dis-associate with your true feelings and desires internally, you will find it very difficult to stay authentic with the external world too. Before you can truly be vulnerable with yourself, accept yourself for you are right here, right now and love and respect yourself no matter what, you will always feel the need to modify yourself when you meet the outside world, because the way you judge yourself is the way you think the world will judge you.

There are three aspects to self-love which you really master that can tremendously improve the quality your inner and outer experiences.

1) Love:
Love is only thing that is real and is hold everything together. Fear is an illusion created by our ego. That’s why many spiritual teachers define fear as false expectations appearing real. To solve any problem in life, ask yourself “What choices that lead you closer to love and peace?” AImage result for true lovelso love cannot be defined. Everyone experience and express love in different ways. Love is not just a concept. It’s a force but it’s also a feeling. Love is gentle. Love is passionate. Love is creative. Love is courageous. Love heals. Love challenges. Love frees. Love always tell the truth. Spend some time alone and ask yourself, what makes your heart really sing even if nobody knows or sees? What are you naturally drawn to? What would you do if money is not the problem? What would you do if you know anything is possible? Close your eyes and let go all of your thoughts, emotions and preferences and allow the wisdom of your souls to show your true purposes, qualities and paths through gentle knowingness or flashes of insights. To some people, it may come as images or voices that are so distinguishable yet familiar because they resonate with your souls on multi-dimensional levels.

2. Truth

In a world that almost everybody concerns with their outer appearance more than their inner qualities, it can be difficult to see the importance of being truthful and honest. Image result for spiritual truth
However, as you evolve spiritually and desire more love and meaning in your life, you start to see that being completely honest with yourself and accepting life for what it is and trusting the workings of the universe is the only way to stay sane and grounded in this ever-changing world where illusions and duality are the true obstacles that we need to overcome. Spend some time alone and examine exactly how you feel about what you are going through in life. If judgments and self-critical thoughts surface, let go of the thoughts and pay attention to the emotions, feeling or energy beneath them. Breathe deeply in your diaphragm and as you breathe out, set the intention to align your heart, mind and spirit to be one with the ultimate truth and be a channel to allow divine energy wash away all the false beliefs, limiting emotions and feeling etc. that can be let go at this moment. As you keep practice this for at least thirty days, you will start to notice more positivity, clarity, confidence and peace in you

3) Vulnerability/ Humility

Vulnerability and humility go hand in hand. Both are essential to help you open your heart and mind to learn new aspects about yourself, life, Image result for spiritual vulnerabilitylaws of the universe and be flexible and be willing to change. Having the vulnerability to face your fears and the humility to honestly examine your life are essential for deep rooted growth and changes. Vulnerability and humility are also vital in the process of letting go of your personal judgments and releasing the resistance to your truth paths. When you are flow of life, your desires, intentions and longings can be manifested in miraculous ways which take you to wonderful places you have never been to both internally and externally. Vulnerability and humility are both prerequisites and enhancer for experiencing more true love in your life. As you allow yourself to be vulnerable and humble, you consciously accept the enteral oneness that connects all people, things, and experiences. As you consciously integrate this truth and energy into your daily life, you will start to experience more harmony, peace, joy, love and gratitude. You will feel less need for other people’s acceptance and be connected with your true power.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Healing with Sagittarius Full Moon (Part II)

The dynamic and fiery Sagittarius Full moon falls on May 29 in the Northern sphere and May 30 in the Southern Sphere. Its effect usually lasts for 3 days. So anytime between May 29 to June 02 would be a wonderful time to set intention to release what no longer serves you and ask for additional help from the divine to allow the process to be as gentle and pleasant while effective as possible.

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The internal and external shifts you are experiencing are the ways your souls communicate with you to let you know what is coming your way. You may feel confused, worried, upset or excited. It’s going to be a different experience for everyone, but it’s very important for you to stay as grounded as possible. The more grounded you become, the more positive changes and new uplifting energy can be integrated into your body and your life. The deeper you go within and the more reflective you become, the deeper the shifts will be rooted with you. Your system is like a tree, the stronger, deeper the roots are, the higher it can reach.

If you feel there needs to be a shift in perception to allow higher dimension feelings and thoughts to come in, or releasing of suppressed emotions, or letting go of friendships or relationships that are not supportive of where you are going or changing careers or jobs that hold you back from reaching your full potential, set intentions to release them in manageable ways and fully own the decisions and trust that the universe always listens and responds as your true essence/higher self is one with the universe – the divine.  

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The changes you are experiencing now can be sudden or subtle. It can be what you have prayed for or out the blue. However the changes manifest themselves, remember to stay nimble and flexible regarding to your approaches. Purify your intentions and desires so that they are based in love, compassion, humility and service and surrender them fully to the universe and trust that there are great gifts and blessings coming your way. Keep in mind that no matter what we have planed for, the universe always have something better in store for us.

If you feel confused about what choices to make regarding your careers, relationships or even spiritual paths, pause, step back and give yourself space to allow the right answers to come to you when you are in the right frame of mind and your hearts are receptive. It’s okay to slow down, be silent for a while, and stay present in your body to allow yourselves to be receptive to divine ideas.  It’s essential to create a peaceful and loving space within you to allow what is for your highest good to come to you and then you can take it from there. 

 

 

Love and light,

Jane Huang

 

Healing with Sagittarius Full Moon (Part I)

Full Moon in Sagittarius takes place on May 29 2018 in the Northern Sphere and May 30 in the Southern Sphere. It’s a dynamic and fiery full moon. Most people feel its effect three days before and after the actual full moon takes place.  So if you experience emotional discomfort or inner turmoil, understand it’s one of the ways that your souls purge and let go of what is outgrown and create space for the new and what is more suitable to support where you are now.

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Holding this awareness in your mind and your heart can really help you stay detached from victim mentality, blame, and other types of drama or power struggles. Truly it is not what happens to you that creates your future, it is your intention and how you respond to circumstances that create your current and future internal and external experiences.  So whenever you feel agitated, upset, or any other negative feelings, consider stopping what you are doing, breathing, and slowing down the rhythm to create a peaceful inner space. Then affirm: Even though I feel ________, I choose to completely love, respect and honor myself. In this way, you make a conscious choice to be more rooted in your true essence and observe emotional disruptions as clouds in the sky which you know will pass at the right time. You never worry about if the Sun will ever come out again. You know that the weather will change and the Sun will eventually come out. The same applies to emotions and physical realities. The law of cause and effect states that everything in the Universe responds to what you think, how you feel, what your true intentions are and what actions you take. So as you shift your inner world, you will see a shift in your outer world as well. As you become more awakened, you will have the increasing awareness that everything is a mirror for us in some way to help me learn and grow and reach our full potential in this physical world.

As a particular emotion surfaces, welcome it like a great friend and just be with it, put your hands over your heart and ask what does this particular emotion needs. It may tell you that it needs more love, more compassion, more connection or more joy or laughter. Learn to trust your inner guidance (it’s usually very gentle, soft, loving and positive) and start to make conscious changes in your thoughts, feelings and behaviours in the direction you desire. Soon you will realize that as you are building a bridge between where you are now and where you would like to be, your physical world also start to shift in the direction you desire.

 

Love and light,

Jane Huang

Heart Always Tells the Truth

Have you been spending enough time in solitude lately to connect with the inner well of wisdom that lies in your heart and soul? If you have not, be sure to take some time off and have some alone time to listen to your inner feelings which is attuned to divine guidance and inspiration when you are connected to the field of peace, love, grace, and gratitude.

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You may have questions and concerns regarding to your career, health, romantic life, spiritual understanding etc. No matter what the situation is, it is helpful to be aware that your current circumstance is only temporary and an unlimited number of possibilities exist at this very moment for every situation. Whatever that was manifested in the physical world is just a reflection of your dominant beliefs and feelings. If you want a different result, you will have to change your inner beliefs and heal emotional wounds. It is true that everything is a mirror. Whatever you see in others is a reflection of your own qualities, desires, fears and judgements. That is why for people who have high awareness, life is no long a struggle. It becomes a game because to them everything is a stepping stone to their success. They see themselves as the creators of their life rather than feeling victimized by their current life situations. They take responsibilities for all of their emotions and feelings and are responsible for every result they get in their life. They have the golden touch to turn negative emotions and situations into positive ones because they have the awareness that most people do not have.

However, before you are able to take positive actions to change your life situations and take your life creation into your own hands, there is a very important step that needs to take place first. Without this step, you will not be able to make the right choices and take the right actions when you face challenges – You have to know exactly what your heart wants from a certain situation and be honest about your every feeling regarding to it. It doesn’t matter if others agree because it is not their path, not their life, not their creation. You only need to agree with yourself. Once you deal with any inner conflict, external circumstances are much easier to deal with. 

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Know that very time you overwrite your feelings, the voice of your intuition lowers and you feel less safe and supported in this world. You become doubtful because your mind and your heart are disconnected. The noise in your mind can easily covers the whispers from your soul which always steer you in the right direction. If this feels like you, schedule quiet sometime alone with yourself and conduct some life review or self-reflection session. It will prove to be extremely beneficial both short-term and long-term. It will not only help you make better decisions, but also attract the right kind of people and situations into your life to support your vision and intentions. 

Jane Huang

Love and light

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

 

 

Prayer for Solar Eclipse

Solar Eclipse will take place on Monday, August 20 2017. It is a powerful way for the universe to give us a helping hand on releasing what doesn’t serve us, putting us on the right path or initiating something new that start a new chapter of your life. The key to work with this energy and harness the most from it and integrating it into your life is allowingness and letting go of control. For some people, changes may come very sudden or even shocking. For others, changes may be more mild. Some may manifest in external environment, others may be some sort of internal transformation. No matter what it is, changes are on their way and your life is starting a new chapter. Here is a prayer to help you stay grounded, relaxed as energy shifts around and within you.

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God, divine father and mother, please help me stay grounded and connected with the divine energy during this solar eclipse period. Please help me let go of any fear (conscious or unconscious) associated with it and trust that it’s another way that the universe help the energy move so that my life can move into the next phase. Please help me remain as a witness to the changes around me and not get into any fear or worry. Things will clear themselves up once we are out of this phase and we will know then why thy have happened. My job during this period is to stay connected to the divine and allow the divine to lift and clear my energy, open my spiritual heart and allow releasing and healing to take place. Please keep my ego stay out of the way and allow the process to happen naturally in its own timing – not faster or slower. The divine knows what I need, what’s coming my way and what my potential is and I trust that this process will be done perfectly. Please help me be gentle with myself during this process, rest enough as my spirit and physical bodies go through some major transformation. Please guide me to surround myself with gentle and loving people and keep my vibration high.

You may start to see or feel the changes even a week before Solar Eclipse. Some changes and adjustment may take 2 to 40 days to really settle in and be anchored in your field (both internal and external). Please be gentle and patient with the process and mostly importantly enjoy the process. There may seem a million things happening around you, but there is only one step you need to take now – the step that is right in front you. When you are grounded in this moment, you mind will be sharpened and your intuition will be strong. You will know exactly what to do and how to be. You will be the authentic you without feeling the need to please others or fit in a certain culture or belief system. This is what I believe all people strive for – FREEDOM.

Take care and God bless you.

  • I use God, the divine, universe synonymously in all of my posts and I connect with the good and the divine in all religions and teachings. If you feel a strong affiliation with a certain religion, teaching, angel, ascended master etc, please feel free to adjust the prayer to your need so that it feel authentic to you.

Love and light

Jane  Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

 

 

 

It Gets Better Series

LOVE HEALS AND FLURISH EVERYTHING. There are a lot of negative things and events happening in the world right now, but I am glad that It Gets Better Project has taken off so well and has had amazingly positive impact on not only people who are in the coming out processes, but also those who are in career transitions having to come out of comfort zones, taking actions to follow true callings to bring more love to the world no matter what others say, standing up against unloving cultural traditions even in front of dangerous and life-threatening punishment and questioning political authorities and revealing what is really going in the world on a large scale. Respect, applause and reverence go to the brave, the honest, the strong and those who sacrifice for others.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

The Poem of Life, Love & Growth

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Beneath the density of your grief, lie the sparks of your passion.

Light up your passion and let the inner light guide you to create miracles and colour the world.

Beneath the depth of your searching, stands the evergreen tree of wisdom,

Its roots are so deep that it has been wating for your visit since the beginning of your existence

In the midst of cloud of your loneliness, sits a beautiful and abundant queen

whose joy comes from sharing not needing for others

Beneath all the effort dedicated to achieving inner enlightenment and refusing to be conditioned by society,

lies a half-sleeping lion whose awakening time is about to come.

The awakening threathens the weak while uplift the strong.

Beneath your sorrow and heartbreaks, lies a beautiful rose of love and compassion

that grows and omours everytime you shower others with forgiveness, love, affection and compassion,

while withers in anger, hatred, resentment, and envy.

Beneath your fears, lie the seeds of inexhaustable courage and undefeatable confidence which will grow into you

if you protect them with faith and definite purposes.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance