Grow with Life Experiences Series

June 03, 2022

Your beliefs, thoughts, and emotions create your reality because they not only attract circumstances that reflect them but also affect your response and reaction to various situations, opportunities and challenges in life.

So by changing your beliefs, thoughts and emotions, you can change your life. By healing your past trauma, release negative thoughts and beliefs, you are able to heal yourself, release past experiences, beliefs or doctrines that have been instilled in your mind but are no longer supportive of what you are going. Then the plateau you experience in life will be lifted, and you will be able to see and experience what is beyond your current beliefs allow you to. You will be able to experience more joy, freedom, and cultivate deeper connection with yourself and you will be able to perceive and understand people, things and situations on a deeper level and in a more truthful manner because you are not looking through filters anymore, you are seeing people, things and situations for what truly they are.

However, it has its pros and cons:

pros:

You will feel that life has more meaning and life has more colour.

You feel deeper emotions, have deeper thoughts and start to look for and attract people who are more aligned with who you are and where you are going.

You will feel a sense of community and support when you are surrounded by like-minded and like-hearted people.

You will feel you life is taking off or is accelerating.

You feel excited about life and have more tolerance for the challenges that life throws your way

You will feel happier because you are more in touch with your true being. In another word, you start to love yourself unconditionally and forgive yourself easily.

You will have more compassion for yourself and others

You will start to develop inner strength and wisdom which go hand in hand

cons:

Spiritual growth may come with some growing pains. You may start to realize who are not contributing positivity in your life and you will want to distancing yourself from them. This can be an uncomfortable phase because people tend to be drawn to what is familiar. During this time, it’s very important to surround yourself with people who truly care about you and who understand what you are going through. You need support to go through the cleansing phase. Of course, you can do this on your own, but it is easier when there is support, love and understanding around you. Besides that, you can also learn from those who have gone through similar situations as you do. Human beings are social beings, through communication and interaction with others, we gain new information, ideas, inspiration etc. that help us become smarter, stronger, kinder and learn to see things from different perspectives.

Everyday, start to do things that excite you and scare you at the same time as long as they don’t put you in any kind of danger because the goal is to open yourself to a world and experiences that are beyond your current comfort zone and not to traumatize yourself. Even in just in one year, you’ll start to see a huge amount of changes and growth!

Love and Light,

Jane

How to create more abundance in your life!

Sit in a quite place and breathe in through your nose and breathe out through your mouth until you feel relaxed. Imagine your feet sink deep into the earth and feel the solid nurturing earth energy supporting your whole being .

Place your hands on the centre of your chest and put your attention gently between your hands and the skin of your chest and say “I am my awareness.” If emotions come up, it’s okay. Be with them for a moment. You don’t have to do anything. Be aware of them is enough. They will heal, evolve and expand at the right time.

Now ask to connect with your spiritual guides, archangels, angels or your higher self whoever you connect with usually. If you are new to spirituality, and you are not sure who to connect with, you can always ask to connect with your higher self and your subconscious mind. Spirituality also starts with connecting with yourself first. The deeper you go, the higher you can reach.

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Now say in your mind or out loud:

God,  archangels, angels, seraphim, my higher self, my subconscious mind please help me be aware of my negative beliefs about money. Be aware of what thoughts, memories emotions, images, colors etc. show up. Allow your emotions to flow through you. Pay attention if you have any body sensations. Write them down. When you come back and re-read what you have written down, you’ll see how your thoughts, emotions are trying to communicate with you and you will have better connection with yourself and make better decisions in the future.

Now repeat the same exercise  for financial abundance

Pay attention to what financial abundance really feels to you. Be aware of what thoughts, emotions, images, colors etc show up. Pay attention to your body sensations. Do you feel expansion, warmth, or something else and write them down. 

Financial security and abundance is directly connected with your sense of self-worth. How do you see and feel about yourself? Do you really love, value and accept all part of yourself no matter what? You are the only person who can give you the love, the validation, the support you will ever need. The healing process starts and ends with healing your inner child. When you were a child, you depended on your parents. But when you are an adult, you really have to learn to be the divine mother and divine father that inner child needs. You have to be the force in your life to heal, love and appreciate your inner child in all aspects. When you heal your inner child, you really build a strong foundation in yourself, the 3D world and the spiritual world because you have integrated and harmonized all part of yourself and you will be more in peace with yourself. Your emotions will have higher frequency and your desires will manifest more quickly.

Find a quite place to sit and ask you higher self, your subconscious mind and your guides to show you your sense of self-worth. Pay attention to any thoughts, emotions, images, body sensations that come up and write them down. Pay attention to your breathing and become more aware of our own rhythm.

Now you have just released a lot of suppressed energy and emotions that no longer support you. In order for it to manifest more quickly in your life, you need to do come cleaning and organizing. (You can do this on the next day, if you feel you have a lot emotions to process or a lot of thought and feelings to write down in your journal.) Go through your place and clean out all the things that you no longer need. By doing this, you are generate room for new energy to come in and new events to manifest. You will also feel lighter and less dense. Everything is inter-connected. What you do in our physical world affects your mental, emotional and spiritual experience.

Now go back to your desk and write down as much as possible what you are grateful for. The attitude of gratitude will generate positive energy within you and in turn create positive experience in your life. In truth, you can only experience what you are and everything else is merely a mirror for you. I am sure you have heard of the saying “When you change the way you look at something, it changes.” It is because your out experience is a direct reflection of your inner experiences.

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Now that you have done the heard part, finally you can write your goals, your dreams and what you want to experience in your life. I put this part at last is because I want to you experience your heart first and know the difference between your heart and your mind. Your heart’s desires will always fulfill you. By staying in your heart, you will be less sensitive to other people’s judgment, opinions because love the strongest force and protection in the universe. You don’t need other people’s praise to do what you want to accomplish. You only need love to do what you want to do.

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Love and peace,

Jane Huang

 

 

The Importance of Speaking Truthfully

The ability to speak truthfully from your heart and mind in all interactions is a necessary skill to have in order to gain loyal, trustworthy friends, build strong bonds with your loved ones and be an influential figure in your career not in an egotistical way but because you have something genuine and progressive to share.

Speak truthfullyWhatever comes from the heart originates in love and whatever originates in love can never fade away or be destroyed. People may forget what you have said to them, but they will never forget how you make them feel. However, it doesn’t mean you always need to tell people what they want to hear without checking in what you want to say really resonates with you. Otherwise you will be a people pleaser and give people not with best intention excuses not to treat you with respect.

Be genuine, be in your power, speak truthfully and respectfully. Your love and respect for yourself and others can potentially awaken the love and respect in others. If whoever you talk to responds well to you, then you know it’s a relationship that is worth developing. If not, then you know they are not the right person to connect to, at least not for now and not on that specific subject matter. Also based on how they respond to you, you can have a glimpse of their character and quality as person. I always remember what Warren Buffett said: “You cannot make a good deal with a bad person.” Have strong boundaries but also be flexible. Everyone has the potential to change and evolve. Everyone has the potentiality to be great and extraordianry. However without making definite decisions and taking actions, the potentiality can never be realized. Pay attention to people’s actions and not just the words as well as how they treat everybody they encounter.

It is also very important to point out that people tend to mirror each other, especially in  close relationships. What you see in others often is a reflection of yourself. This can be tricky when you are not aware of these hidden parts of yourself and can be confusing and even destructive if you project them onto others. For example, if you made a mistake in your work and your manager was upset. It doesn’t necessarily mean he/she is upset with you or there is soSpeak truthfully 2mething wrong with you. But if you feel hurt, then it usually comes from an unhealed wounded that is triggered by the manager. So in this case, it is best to seek help from a professional to heal the wound within yourself first before communicating with the manager about the issue.

On the other hand, the manager has to be aware of their own projections and not misuse or abuse their power and positions. I love the following two quotes from Dale Carnigie’s book “How to win friends & influence people”:

  1. “A great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little men.”
  2. “Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.”

There’s a chapter from the book “The Four Agreement” titled “Be impeccable with your words.

The following is my take on it:

Before you can be impeccable with your words, it’s important to look into your heart and ask yourself what your true intention is. Your words intensify and consolidate your intention while your intention is the driving force behind your words. Before you communicate with someone about an important issue, negotiate a deal or confess your feelings, it’s essential to always be clear about your intentions, your values, what sits well with you and what doesn’t, so that you are prepared, grounded and present. You will know clearly what to do, wcommunicationhere you can compromise and where you cannot.

The best kind of communication is always two-way open communication. Let go of your judgments and what you think you know about a person or a situation. Allow your understanding of them to support your discernment but soften your judgement so that you see him/her and situation for what they really are instead of looking for what you want to see. In this way, you allow both parties to come at a mutual understanding and build a good foundation for trust and growth.

 

Love and Light,

Jane Huang

If you are going through challenging times…

If you think you are stuck in challenging circumstances right now and there seems to be no way out and you don’t know what to do, take a deep breath and try to be connected with your breath, be centered in your heart and let go of all thoughts for a moment. Deep breath in and out and pay attention to all the sensations in your body. Image result for surrenderTry this for 10 to 20 minutes. Then as you observe your mind and hold the intention in your heart that no matter what happened, there is always a way out or around. Hold sincere and humble intentions for miracles to manifest themselves.

No matter how bad your think the problems are, there are always at least one solution whether you are aware or not. No matter how big the mistakes you have made, Divine love and grace forgives you instantly. And you need to drop the ego or the critical mind and be completely honest and humble about your feelings. Then the mind can be open to be aligned with divine ideas.

If you think you are at plateau in some areas of your life, trust there is always room to grow. There is no limit to spirit. Although for divine ideas to be grounded in your system and to manifest into something tangible,  it may take time and effort, they are great opportunities to learn important lessons such as faith, surrender, trust, flexibility and patience. The more challenging the circumstance, the more important for your life purpose and the greater the lessons. Trust that the divine really only gives you what you can handle. So if you are facing seemingly impossible challenges now, focus on what lessons you are supposed to learn here. What qualities you need to develop to overcome the challenges. Once you get clear mentally and emotionally, action come much easier and desired circumstances can be manifested magically.

For example, in order to run a business well, you may have to learn about building healthy boundaries, trusting yourself and the divine, nurturing your dreams and desires, taking inspired actions, be open to others suggestions and always stay true to what is important and what feels right to you, and taking inspired actions consistently.

To manifest a healthy relationship or to be with the man or woman of your dream, you have to learn about self-love aImage result for learning growingnd self-appreciation, patience, respecting others’ free will, letting go and realizing that you have always been whole, being responsible for your own feelings and emotions, staying true to yourself without denying yourself just because you love someone and taking loving actions no matter how challenging you think it may be and allowing your true self to be seen and not be afraid to be vulnerable.

Whatever the challenges are, don’t run away from them. Face them squarely and walk through them. Have faith that whatever you need will be given at the right time at the right place and you just need to stay open. So it’s a great experience to build trust and connection with the divine and realize that with the divine/God, anything is possible. 

In life, everything is a reflection of yourself.  If you feel life becomes unbearable and all you could do is to bottle down all of your feelings, push them aside and pretend they are not there. Then life challenges will nudge you to be more self-loving and bring your attention to your shadow side which needs healing and nurturing. At this time, it’ll be best to seek professional help instead of attempting to deal with stress, traumas and breakdowns alone. There is nothing weak about asking for help. It actually shows great strengths such as vulnerability and trust and humility. Besides that, we can learn so much by working with others and see things from different perspectives because really it’s all about perspectives.

Further more, it’s very important that you do whatever is necessary to make sure you have a loving and supportive immediate environment.Image result for self love Human being are social beings and you become the people that you spend most time with. So pay attention to how, where and with whom you spend your time, money and energy. It’s not about cutting people out of your life. It’s about being responsible for  your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health and being loving to yourself. Make sure that when you do something, it is because you choose to do it rather than you think you have to do it.

Lastly, don’t be so afraid of life challenges. Divine wouldn’t give you the challenges you are not able to overcome. So rejoice that the divine entrusts you to overcome them. Try to look at external unfavorable circumstances as gifts to help you heal the shadow side of yourself and get clear about what you want in your life. Keep your eyes on the prize and focus on what truly matters. It’s much more rewarding to be an outlier, be on your true path and do what you truly love than going along withImage result for inner outer world the crowd and being hollow inside.

Life is really about learning to connect the inner realm and the outer world and making your heart-based desires your reality. Mistakes and struggles are necessary part of the journey, they teach you so much more about life and yourself. As Jim Rohn said: Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom. All relationships and mistakes can be healed and corrected as long as you keep the faith, be open to the wisdom they bring to you and take inspired actions that lift your conscience.

Love and light,

Jane Huang

 

Gratitude Increases Inflow

Whatever you are GRATEFUL for MULTIPLIES in your life!

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Don’t judge yourself based on where you think you are now, what you have now, or what you have accomplished now. The truth is never as simple as what it seems on the surface.

A lot of times, when we think nothing is going for us, but in truth a lot are going on in the background. The universe is working full speed to bring the right circumstances to you at the right time for your highest good so that you can truly appreciate the goodness and the journey you have been on.

Gratitude is one of the highest vibrations in the universe along with love and joy. Connect with the depth of your soul and the love in your heart, and be grateful for every little thing in your life that you have taken granted for.

By working with this energy, you allow your life circumstances to improve in the fastest way possible and allow the universe to help you realize your dreams and destiny in the best way possible.

As Meister Eckhart said: “if the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.”

Jane Huang

Love and light

Prayer for Your Success

Dear God, divine father, mother, the almighty creator, I have come to reconnect with you through my mind, heart and soul. Please lift any doubt I have in my mind and reconnect with the inner wisdom and compass that I have inside. Please lift and clear my energy, and receive divine guidance accurately.

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I have this concern: (Describe your concern) and I need you to help me overcome this. Please strengthen the my connection with you, perceive this situation accurately, be clear about what option to choose and be assertive about the choice I make.

I know that the universe/God always have my back as long as my intentions are benevolent and are tuned into the highest interest for all people involved. Please help me stay in present and not obsessively worry about what will happen in the future. Because future is created and determined by what I am feeling, thinking and doing now. Please grant me the confidence, love, compassion, determination, wisdom and persistence to put in my 100% effort and take action now.

.Thank you God, my divine mother and father for looking after me.

Thank you angels for walking beside me and protecting me each step along the way.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Question Your Ability to Achieve Your Goals? – Watch This!

Human beings have amazing and inexhaustible abilities and potential to achieve our goals and create unbelieve realities. Whether you can achieve your potential, all depends on which image of yourself and the voice in you that you choose to connect to and live by. If you see yourself as a people pleaser, you will always do what other people expect of you and never really find out what you truly want. If you see yourself as a victim of life, you will always find power, strength and decisiveness too far to reach. If you see yourself as a conventional person, you will always follow cultural norms and never question if they are beneficial for societal progression and if they are for your highest good.

On the other hand, if you see yourself as a person who speaks and acts in truth and justice, you will not be lured into pleasing anyone because you see personal freedom and self-repect as most important and when you understand to respect yourself, you will give others the respect that they deserve as well.

If you see yourself as a powerful creator rather than a victim, you will go within and summon your inner wisdom, power and strength to make the best possible decisions out of any situation rather than giving up half way or blaming others for hardship because you understand that you participate in creating everything in your life and how you feel about anything in your life is totally within your control.

If you see yourself as a powerful, free human being who is meant to live by their purpose and bring knowledge, wisdom, freedom and inspiration to the world and is not meant to blindly follow any convention created by society, you will live your life with purpose, determination, gratitude, joy, creativity and love that will touch so many people in this world and inspire them to get out of their shell and be free.

A change in perception and intention can change so much in your life.

If you ever question your ability to achieve your goals, think again, because you are powerful, amazing and beautiful.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder Of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Dream The Impossible, Achieve The Incredible

The journey of success, joy, abundance starts with you taking the first step to bring light, value, power, and positivity into your life and people around you. It’s true that you can not control others’ reaction and you don’t have to. They may not understand or appreciate what you are doing for yourself and the world at this moment because everyone is on a different level of understanding. It doesn’t mean they are less then you are. It only means you are ahead of them and they will come to understand what life is all about in their own time. Also everyone has free will to decide and choose what they want to believe in. If you feel you need others’ approval to start doing what you desire, then you have to look at where your insecurity comes from because if you are truly strong and confident inside, you will not take offense if others disagree with you. In contrast, you would really listen to what they are trying to say and see if there is a point to it. And usually there is, because everything that universe brings to you is for your improvement and advancement, but it depends your level of understanding to comprehent it and your perception to interpret it .


What’s really important is how you feel about what you do and how you live your life. No one else can have the same experience as you do because they are not you. Even if they want to, it is not possible because everything they see, hear, feel and experience is filtered by their unique perception.

So how do you feel about your life? Do you feel excitement, joy, sense of accomplish, determined, and living your purpose? Or do you feel limited, frustrated or even angry because you are struggling among coming to terms with your past, pleasing other people and finding your own power and purpose? Whatever you are struggling with, feel it, acknowledge it and let it go. Let yourself start a new way of living your life and start to believe the imposible can be accomplished.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

 

 

Positivity, Patience And Persistence Are Keys To Miracles

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No matter how negative a situation seems to be, it can always be turned around into something beautiful and meaningful. It may not be easy or it may take a long time. But if it’s something that you desire and truely believe in, it will be worth the effort because the peacefulness, joy, gratitude and sense of accomplishment you gain afterwards are imcompareable and the lessons you have learned along the way can benefit you for the rest of your life.

It’s important to always hold best intentions at heart. If there are inner conflict and resentment in you that prevent you to be positively  in a situation, deal with those negative emotions first because you can’t escape your own thoughts and emotions and they will filter everything that comes into your awareness. If you keep suppressing negative thoughts and emotions instead of acknowledging them, bitterness will become part of you and the consequencial pain will consume you. So clear and let go of your negativity first so that you can see love and truth in that situation rather than believing in false illusions created by your tainted awareness. Then you are able to carry out positive actions in a very natural manner as actions are physical reflections of your inner state.

Everything is moving and changing. So never think that a certain situation can not be changed. If you consistantly change your attitude and actions, it will affect other people and the situation will certainly change but you have to have the will to initiate it and do something about it rather than waiting for someone else to do it for you or a fairy tale miracle to happen.

Never think that what you are able to do now is not enough. Do not judge yourself by comparing your starting point with someone elses’ finished results. Long-lasting changes are never easy to make and they are not mean to be done in just one day. If you can not do extraordinary things, do small things in an extraordinary way. Do something positive everyday about a situation you want to change whether it’s personal or worldly, be consistent and persistent at it.  You will be surprised what it can mount to overtime. When you look back, you will be so happy about and proud of the decisions you have made and the things you have done.

Love and light,

Jane Huang