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Keep your energy and vibration high during COVID-19 lockdown

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn Acceptance, Awarenss, COVID-19 lockdown, Emotional health, Inner Child healing, Mental health, MInd Body and Spirit Connection, Passion, Personal Growth, Releasing negative and painful emotions, Self-healing, Self-love, spiritualityLeave a comment

During this quarantine period, although it is easy to be influenced by negative news and remain in a state of fearfulness,  it is important to fear will never attract or manifest anything positive. It will only attract and manifest more fear. At this time of uncertainty and turbulence, it is crucial that we keep our energy high and vibrant so that negative forces can’t have any grip on us.

Looking from a different angle, being at home is a perfect time to cultivate high, pure light energy within yourself and really strengthen your light body. I have been working meditate light bodyon healing and strengthening my subtle/ energy body for the past two weeks and have released a lot of emotions and become more sensitive and mindful of the health of my subtle body. It has been amazing. I feel more peaceful, grounded and more connected to my being.

 

To help you connect with your spirituality and stay calm and peaceful inside, I have summarized some tips below:

1. Journal before you go to sleep. Write down your desires, fears, worries, confusions and ask either negatives emotions to be cleared during your dream state or answers and solutions regarding your questions be answered in whatever way that is clear to you. JournalWriting down your thoughts and feelings is a great way to clear yourself and let go of your grip on the situation. For any situation to unfold in a positive way, you must detach and let go and allow it to manifest in the way it is meant to be. When you allow and trust, it will always unfold in a way that is for your highest good and you will understand it sooner or later.  

2. Go to sleep with a peaceful mind and open heart. You can achieve this by saying a prayer, meditating, or listening to a peaceful sleep meditation before sleep. The thoughts and feelings you carry into your sleep have profound influence on your inner state. If you take resentful, hateful, angry thoughts with you in your dreams, you will wake up exhausted, depressed, angry, and unfocused. If you go to sleep with a feeling of gratitude, love and peace, you will wake up with more energy, feeling of joy and expansion. Let go of your grip or your perspective on a situation. If someone did something that upset you, just understand, it’s the way they peaceful sleepare, it doesn’t have anything to do with you. They behave in a certain way that they think is most beneficial which you may or may not agree. Repeat to yourself “I forgive you for not being the person I want you to be.” Because in truth, nobody has the obligation to do what pleases you. If you have met someone who is like you and you resonate with, know that this is a blessing and a gift and be grateful for the gift. The attitude of gratitude bring you more of what you love and appreciate.

3. Upon waking, write down your dreams, pay attention to the feelings, colours, messages, the storylines, etc. Sometimes, you may see animals, ETs, or yourself as a different person. No matter how bizarre your dreams are, write down the details as much as possible. When you go back and read your dreams in a month, 3 months, a year, you will see a pattern how your subconscious mind communicates with you and you will start to remember more and more of your dreams. It’s pretty amazing!

4. If something is bothering you, write them down. Writing down your thoughts can really help you sort through your thoughts and emotions. Sometimes, solutions and understanding of a situation can magically appear while you are writing. Pay attention to how you feel and only anchor on positive, assertive and constructive emotions so that your energy/subtle body stays strong.

5. Observe your thoughts and emotions rather than letting them control and affect you. You are much bigger than your thoughts and emotions which are just some aspects of you and they can change constantly. light bodyObserve your thoughts and emotions and let them go. Don’t try to hold on to any of them whether you perceive them as good or bad. Be more fluid, and things in your life will unfold more quickly. That’s why so many people find the famous quote from Bruce Lee “Be like water.” inspiring.

6. Use our time and energy mindfully and choose who you spend your time with consciously. Create an environment for yourself that is nurturing and supportive of who you are and what you want to become. Don’t be afraid to say no. If people don’t respect your choices, they don’t deserve to be in your life. You don’t want to give your precious time and energy to somebody who doesn’t respect you. Do not give up part of yourself just to keep the peace or avoid conflict. Your vibration and the quality of your inner state are your highest priority.

7. Other people are your mirrors. What you like or dislike in a person is a reflection of yourself on some level. Universe gives us challenging situations to help us grow. Challenging situations are perfect opportunities to look within to heal our wounded self and release what is no long needed for our highest good. Everything evolves. Allow yourself evolve naturally and organic without putting external restrictions on yourself. Then you can really witness and be amazed by the grand plan your soul and the divine has for you.  and .

8. Have fun! Laughter is the best medicine. You can heal a lot through laughter and allow your inner child to come out and play. inner childThis is when you are able to reintegrate parts of yourself that have split off during stress times. Healing doesn’t always have to be heavy and challenging. You can heal during deep sleep, watching a movie, playing sports, music, artistic and creative endeavors etc. It important to connect and love your inner child because it is essential in the process of manifestation and your connect to spirit. Once you are able to love and accept all parts of yourself and love your inner child, you will have so much spiritual power, strength, insights and understanding. You will see and understand people and situations so much more clearly that nothing will bother you anymore and you will know exactly what is the right thing to do in every situation.

Love and light,

Jane Huang

Three Aspects to Permanent Growth in Life

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn Awarenss, beliefs, Connecting with emotions, Healing, love, Love and Relationships, MInd Body and Spirit Connection, Personal Growth, Releasing negative and painful emotions, Self-healing, spiritualityLeave a comment

As you consciously choose to grow spiritually and set the intention be embrace the authentic “you”, you may start to notice your day-to-day choices may be based on a lot of fear based emotions. The activities you consciously or unconsciously engage with may have a lot of addictive nature such as checking emails, messages, reading magazines, tabloids news etc. in order to feel some level of excitement or fulfillment. This type of addition can really disconnect with your inner feelings, intuition and soul wisdom. Ask yourself, are you able to embrace solitude? Do you really treasure the time you spend with yourself? Do you allow yourself to feel and accept your true feelings and hold compassion for them or are you afraid of them and feel the need to run away from them, suppress them or distract yourself by busy doing something?Image result for spiritual growth The external life circumstances are really reflection of your inner world. If you dis-associate with your true feelings and desires internally, you will find it very difficult to stay authentic with the external world too. Before you can truly be vulnerable with yourself, accept yourself for you are right here, right now and love and respect yourself no matter what, you will always feel the need to modify yourself when you meet the outside world, because the way you judge yourself is the way you think the world will judge you.

There are three aspects to self-love which you really master that can tremendously improve the quality your inner and outer experiences.

1) Love:
Love is only thing that is real and is hold everything together. Fear is an illusion created by our ego. That’s why many spiritual teachers define fear as false expectations appearing real. To solve any problem in life, ask yourself “What choices that lead you closer to love and peace?” AImage result for true lovelso love cannot be defined. Everyone experience and express love in different ways. Love is not just a concept. It’s a force but it’s also a feeling. Love is gentle. Love is passionate. Love is creative. Love is courageous. Love heals. Love challenges. Love frees. Love always tell the truth. Spend some time alone and ask yourself, what makes your heart really sing even if nobody knows or sees? What are you naturally drawn to? What would you do if money is not the problem? What would you do if you know anything is possible? Close your eyes and let go all of your thoughts, emotions and preferences and allow the wisdom of your souls to show your true purposes, qualities and paths through gentle knowingness or flashes of insights. To some people, it may come as images or voices that are so distinguishable yet familiar because they resonate with your souls on multi-dimensional levels.

2. Truth

In a world that almost everybody concerns with their outer appearance more than their inner qualities, it can be difficult to see the importance of being truthful and honest. Image result for spiritual truth
However, as you evolve spiritually and desire more love and meaning in your life, you start to see that being completely honest with yourself and accepting life for what it is and trusting the workings of the universe is the only way to stay sane and grounded in this ever-changing world where illusions and duality are the true obstacles that we need to overcome. Spend some time alone and examine exactly how you feel about what you are going through in life. If judgments and self-critical thoughts surface, let go of the thoughts and pay attention to the emotions, feeling or energy beneath them. Breathe deeply in your diaphragm and as you breathe out, set the intention to align your heart, mind and spirit to be one with the ultimate truth and be a channel to allow divine energy wash away all the false beliefs, limiting emotions and feeling etc. that can be let go at this moment. As you keep practice this for at least thirty days, you will start to notice more positivity, clarity, confidence and peace in you

3) Vulnerability/ Humility

Vulnerability and humility go hand in hand. Both are essential to help you open your heart and mind to learn new aspects about yourself, life, Image result for spiritual vulnerabilitylaws of the universe and be flexible and be willing to change. Having the vulnerability to face your fears and the humility to honestly examine your life are essential for deep rooted growth and changes. Vulnerability and humility are also vital in the process of letting go of your personal judgments and releasing the resistance to your truth paths. When you are flow of life, your desires, intentions and longings can be manifested in miraculous ways which take you to wonderful places you have never been to both internally and externally. Vulnerability and humility are both prerequisites and enhancer for experiencing more true love in your life. As you allow yourself to be vulnerable and humble, you consciously accept the enteral oneness that connects all people, things, and experiences. As you consciously integrate this truth and energy into your daily life, you will start to experience more harmony, peace, joy, love and gratitude. You will feel less need for other people’s acceptance and be connected with your true power.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Man in the mirror…Make that change!

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn Acceptance, Awarenss, Healing, love, Music, Prayer, Videos, World PeaceLeave a comment

One of the most beautiful, powerful and soul pounding songs from one of the greatest artists who was misunderstood by so many people while he was alive. But from his masterpiece creation, his love for the world, humanity and justice was so clear and undeniable! His songs continously inspire millions of people from all walks of life to be genuine, strong, and out-spoken. He could have continuously created more masterpiece and his life could have been much better if there had been less negative judgements, pressure and attack made towards him.

There are still a lot of people out there make others’ pain their point of attack, ridicule, manipulation and criticism. We DO NOT need any more people like that! There is already enough pain i the world. What we need is more and more people who are seeking for truth, rightiousness and universal love coming together and being given the opporunities to speak truth and love and do the rights things.

Love is always more powerful than fear, resentment, hatred, and condemnation; And light is always more powerful than darkness.

As humanity, we could achieve so much more if people from all countries, cultures, classes, and religions work together to slove problems such as poverty, inequality, racial intolerance, climate changes, water polution, destruction to rainforests etc.

We CAN make it happen only if we start with OURSELVES. Ask yourself what you can do more not only in the benefit of yourself but also those who will be affected?

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

It Gets Better Series

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn Awarenss, beliefs, Connecting with emotions, love, Love and Relationships, Personal Growth, Self-healing, spiritualityLeave a comment

LOVE HEALS AND FLURISH EVERYTHING. There are a lot of negative things and events happening in the world right now, but I am glad that It Gets Better Project has taken off so well and has had amazingly positive impact on not only people who are in the coming out processes, but also those who are in career transitions having to come out of comfort zones, taking actions to follow true callings to bring more love to the world no matter what others say, standing up against unloving cultural traditions even in front of dangerous and life-threatening punishment and questioning political authorities and revealing what is really going in the world on a large scale. Respect, applause and reverence go to the brave, the honest, the strong and those who sacrifice for others.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

The Poem of Life, Love & Growth

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn Awarenss, beliefs, Connecting with emotions, fear, love, MInd Body and Spirit Connection, Passion, Personal Growth, Self-healing, Self-love, spiritualityLeave a comment

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Beneath the density of your grief, lie the sparks of your passion.

Light up your passion and let the inner light guide you to create miracles and colour the world.

Beneath the depth of your searching, stands the evergreen tree of wisdom,

Its roots are so deep that it has been wating for your visit since the beginning of your existence

In the midst of cloud of your loneliness, sits a beautiful and abundant queen

whose joy comes from sharing not needing for others

Beneath all the effort dedicated to achieving inner enlightenment and refusing to be conditioned by society,

lies a half-sleeping lion whose awakening time is about to come.

The awakening threathens the weak while uplift the strong.

Beneath your sorrow and heartbreaks, lies a beautiful rose of love and compassion

that grows and omours everytime you shower others with forgiveness, love, affection and compassion,

while withers in anger, hatred, resentment, and envy.

Beneath your fears, lie the seeds of inexhaustable courage and undefeatable confidence which will grow into you

if you protect them with faith and definite purposes.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

How To Deal With Abusive Relationships

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn anger, Awarenss, beliefs, Connecting with emotions, fear, grief, love, Love and Relationships, Personal Growth, Releasing negative and painful emotions, Self-healing, Self-love, spiritualityLeave a comment

woman huggingThe first step to deal with abusive relationships is admitting you are actually in one. Most people tend to deny they are in one because all relationships take time and effort to create and maintain and we don’t want to believe that the time and evergy that we have spent are going to waste or against us.

Then something might happen to make you alert that the person you are in relatioship (does not have to be romantic relationships, it can be parents, relatives, co-workers, social encounters etc) with actually tend to be a taker, a manipulator, or a user. When situations like this happens, some people critisize the other person for being inconsiderate and be very angry at them while others tend to tell themselves that everything will be fine and wishfully think the other person will change for them. Very few people really look at the the cause of the issue and how the relationship was formed in the first place. However, this is an important step to deal with all relationship problems. We have to really understand what situation we are in and what the next step to take that will bring the best solutions for everyone involved.

Most emotional and physical abusive relationships form when both parties have insecurities, looking for another person to help deal with our problems (or to complete us). Then, we have to ask ourselves, what do we want to experience from this particular relationship? Are we trying to get something from it in order to ease our fears, anxieties or insecurities. Relationships based on co-dependnece will always meet challenges down the road and it will get harder and harder as time goes by because both parties refuse to learn and baggage carried by each people grows day by day.

To deal with it in a healthy way, we really have to detach ourselves from the situation for as long as we need and feel the emotions that come up. The emotions we feel is what created the event and even the relationship. Common emotions include anger because of feeling not getting what one wants, grief due to feeling sacrificing so much for nothing, fear because not knowing what the future will be etc. It’s very important to know we are responsible for everything we feel. We are not responsible for how others treat us because everyone has free will. But we are in total control of how we feel and what actions we take. If what other people do have effect on us, it is beause we are not strong enough internally and we have expectation on others to please us. The expectations we put on others really come from deep-rooted selfishness because we make ourselves the centre of a relationship and we demand others to please us. So it is not surprising that relationships formed based on selfishness create pain for both sides and will not last long. People who are attached to their expectations tend to stay in abusive relationships longer because they are more susceptible to illusions that the other person will become who they want them to be.

Once we are clear about our feelings and where they come from, we are ready to start taking action that will help us grow and free us eventually.

  1. Do not play the blame game: meaning completely own your own emotions, thoughts, and actions. If someone is not loving to you (eg: criticism, ridicule, condemn, manipulate, blame etc) tell them how you feel, and give them a choice to change. If they do not change, leave. You do not have to put up with that.
  2. See what you can change in order to improve the situation: all abuseive relationships are created by more than one person. See what you have done has created such an relationship. Change your attitude, actions and intentions. Communicate with the other person. If he/she is willing to change in the positive direction, you can choose to grow together. If the other person is closed off and not willing to change, leave the situation because the other person is being selfish and controlling and you do not have to be the victim.
  3. Persistence: Roman Empire was not built in one day. Usually abusive realtionships are quite difficult lessons to learn and takes time and effort to change or leave them. You have to be persistent in what you do and how you feel. You need to make new ways of thinking, perceiving, and responding your new habits, replacing the old ones, so that you life keeps going in the desired direction. To achieve that, it takes time, effort and constant practice. Remember: nothing worthwile comes easy.
  4. Celebrate accomplishments: We tend to overlook our needs and under-appreciate ourselves. This is actually one of the reasons why we even get into abusive relationships because we do not love ourselves enough. We tell ourselves it’s okay that life is stressful and frustrating. But in truth, life doesn’t have to be that way. We choose to experience the events we want to experience. No matter how difficult it seems at a particular moment, we always have choices and the right choices always give you hope, peace and freedom. What you choose may take you out of your comfort zone, but it’s good for you and you need to trust your ability to deal with challenges and trust that the universal laws are meant to help your grow and prosper, but you need to take inspired actions and face some challenges first. We also need to understand that challenges/difficulties in life are not meant to be punishment. They are only consequences of what you have done or not done in the past. So the faster you deal with a problem, the less severe consequence it will be.
  5. Start to give more: The purpose of life is to prosper, to grow, be abundant, be confident, be happy, be loving, be generous, be helpful, be compassionate and make your contribution to help others and make the world a better place. The universe will generously return its favour at the right time . The more you give, the more abundant you will be. The more you love, the stronger you will be. The more you smile, the happier you will be. The more you try, the more confident you will be. The more you help, the more successful you will be. The secret to live an abundant, joyful and fulfilling life is to give generously and receive graciously.

Love and light

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

Freedom, Love, Tolerance and Acceptance

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One of the most beautiful songs about freedom, love, spirituality, tolerance and acceptance. We are all brothers and sisters on the jouney of constant learning and creating our individual and collective reality that we call LIFE. It doesn’t matter what cultural, class, racial or religious background you are from, we are fundamentally the same inside and all have the innate desire to love and be loved.

Most problems in the world now are created by lack of love manifesting in lack of tolerance and acceptance such as different religions, culture, politics, sexuality etc. However, everyone has the gift of free will and is encouraged to make whatever decisions they like without harming others. Everyone’s purpose in life is to prosper through experiencing and developing one’s talents and abilities, resulting in creating value to the world and human-kind.

We are much stronger, more powerful together than apart and against each other. The biggest lesson humanity needs to learn is love – truly giving from the heart without expecting anything back while allowing the universe returns its favour at its divine time.

Hope this post can help those who are struggling in life and know that my prayers are with you.

Jane Huang

Founder of MasterSource Spiritual Guidance

You are loved!

On By Jane Huang CoachingIn fear, love, Music, spiritualityLeave a comment

Do you ever doubt if you are good are good enough, attractive enough, smart enough? Are you afraid to pursue your dream because you are afraid to be shot down? Are you hesitant about leaving negative or even abusive relationships? Are you afraid to speak the truth and let others know how you really feel?

Just remember you are loved and cared for by the universe. If you believe in your heart, it’s the right thing to do. DO IT! You do not have to plan everything out at first, but it’s important to consistently take actions that pull you closer to your goals and the life you truly desire. You may be judged, ridiculed, or even abandoned by your friends or family who do not know your true value and worth. But it is crucial that you never give up on yourself, your dream and your beliefs.