When we live in a society where there is so much expectations on us, it’s difficult to really relax, tune in and ask ourselves what we really want to experience. Even when we discover what we want, there are too many what-ifs in our mind blocking us to make the decisions that are really needed and we end up doing what we are used to and have been doing for a long time. The consequence of this is that we never get out of our comfort zone. We feel instantly afraid and worried when things don’t go the way we have planned. We block out all the potential challenges so that we can feel secured, but slowly we will lose passion for life, asking ourselves “is this life all about?” where this truth is that our life is our own making. The more you hold on to your security, the less satisfied you’ll feel because deep down you know nothing is certain. While the more you let yourself go and embrace the opportunities coming your way, the more secured you’ll feel because you are getting in tune with the rhythm of life and you have an uncanny understanding of what life is about which result in undefeatable self-confidence and a deep sense of knowingness. The more you know and understand, the less you will be afraid.
The more you dare to let go of all the preconception of who you should be or who you are told to be, the less you are bounded by the rules created in your mind. Start to make small changes everyday, it will build up your momentum which lowers your resistance toward unexpected changes. Start to believe that everything in life happens for you instead of to you, and your attitudes towards life will change dramatically. It’s true that almost every time your attitudes play much more important roles than outside circumstances.
Breathe deeply and feel the pull towards the life you have dreamed of. Start to take actions right now no matter how small you think it is. Every action will start a series of chain reaction. Follow your heart, trust life and let it take it to where it wants you to experience and you will never look at life the same way you did before.